Who Pays For A Gay Wedding?
Question for Steven: When my older sister got married last year, our parents paid for most of her wedding, and her fiancé’s folks took care of most of the rehearsal dinner and some other incidentals....
View ArticleChanging Co-Workers Opinions About Gay Marriage
Question for Steven: For both my partner and me, getting “married” is as much a political statement as it is about our love. Generally, I don’t bring politics into the office (and I don’t like others...
View ArticleHow Do I Write My Own Vows?
Question for Steven: My partner is an actor and certainly knows how to deliver his lines. He’d like us each to write—and, as he says, “perform”—our own vows for our ceremony. I’m shy and can’t imagine...
View ArticleWhat Hand Do We Wear Our Rings On?
Question for Steven: My boyfriend and I are planning our wedding, and I heard that gay couples often wear their rings on their right hands instead of their left. Is that true? Does that go for...
View ArticleWhat Every Straight Person Needs To Know About Gay Weddings
Question for Steven: I’ve seen that you’ve been giving a lot of smart advice to gay couples planning to marry in New York. My girlfriend and I got engaged a couple of weeks ago and we wanted to know if...
View ArticleWhen Are You Guys Getting Married?
Question for Steven: We’re going out of our minds. Ever since New York passed the law allowing same-sex couples to get married there (no matter where they live), every straight person we know wants to...
View ArticleWhat, You’re Getting Married AGAIN?!?
Question for Steven: I have some very close friends who LOVE getting domestic partnered, civil union-ed, and married. I think they’ve had four ceremonies in the past decade and I’m sure they’re going...
View ArticleWhat The Heck Do I Call My In Laws?
Question for Steven: I’ve been with my partner for two years now. When Diane first met my folks, she, being from the south, called them “Mr. and Mrs. So-and-So”. After we had made several visits they...
View ArticleWhich Etiquette Rules Apply In A Same-Sex Engagement?
We were thrilled to be approached by Stephanie Hallett of The Huffington Post this week as she sought more information on the “norms” and “traditions” of same-sex couples who are popping the question,...
View ArticleWedding Gowns For Two Brides
Must two brides dress like twins? Question for Steven: My fiancée and I are planning our wedding, which is going to be very “traditional” in many ways. We agree on almost all the details, except the...
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